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Parenting in the Time of COVID-19: Teens and Schedules

In There's a Stranger in My House by Dr James Wellborn

As we talked about in the Home Schedules and Children column, our lives are arranged around natural and artificial rhythms (e.g., sunrise/sunset, seasons of the year, wake/sleep times, hunting for and gathering food, clockwork time, school, work, personal grooming and weekday/weekend, etc.).   Typical teen rhythms include sleep/wake, school day, changing classes, project due dates, school year/summer break.  These rhythms shape …

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Parenting in the Time of COVID-19: Children and Home Schedules

In Uncategorized by Dr James Wellborn

Our lives are arranged around natural and artificial rhythms.  The original rhythms are celestial-sunrise/sunset, cycles of the moon, menstruation, seasons of the year.  Artificial rhythms include wake/sleep times, eating meals, hunting for and gathering food.  Society creates rhythms that include clockwork time, school, work, personal grooming and weekday/weekend.  Rhythms in specific contexts include changing classes, team meetings, project due dates, …

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Grade Expectations

In There's a Stranger in My House by Dr James Wellborn

Well, school is now in full swing and soon the first progress report will be making its way to emails near you. For some, this means being faced with setting (or revising) some expectations about grades and studying. Hopefully, you have one of those conscientious kids who love schoolwork and see grades as a challenge to be mastered. In that …

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Back to School: What’s different for boys about school?

In The Blog by Dr James Wellborn

Another school year is getting underway and parents are thinking ahead about how to make this year a success for their kids.  Parents of boys should be particularly attentive.  Boys are not doing so well academically these days compared to girls.  School age boys represent 71% of suspensions and drop out of school at 4 times the rate of girls.  …

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Helping Your Middle School Kid Grieve When A Teacher Dies

In The Blog by Dr James WellbornLeave a Comment

Jim Benton, a teacher at Grassland Middle School in Franklin, Tennessee, died unexpectedly of an undiagnosed medical condition while on a field trip with some of his students.  Here are a couple of things to consider in helping your kid understand and deal with death when it comes to a teacher they and their friends knew in a setting like …